dear Shada ...i thank Allah for being not saudi ..though i have the most respect for all saudi people men and women ...i thank Allah for being muslim ...and i thank Allah for being a girl ....i thank Allah that i don't have a father who could sell me to a 70 years old man ..i thank Allah that i go to college ...i thank Allah for giving me a mind to know what s good for me and what s bad ....best of luck