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[شذى الوادي]

me 4 islam

thanks a lot for your topic

best regard

[Jasmine Al-Qahtani]

When a GIRL is quiet ... millions of things are running in her mind.

When a GIRL is not arguing ...she is thinking deeply.

When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions ...she is wondering how long you will be around.

When a GIRL answers " I'm fine " after a few seconds ... she is not at all fine.

When a GIRL stares at you ... she is wondering why you are lying.

When a GIRL says " I love you " ... she means it.

When a GIRL says " I miss you " ... no one in this world can miss you more than that.



How beautiful are the girls !! I like talking with small girls and teenagers , and I think we are all responsible about every girl in our families. We must give them our attention and hearts before they ask, and we should shower them with love. also, I become very sad when I see a girl wastes her passion in a wrong way. then, I asks myself is that her faults of their parents' fault.
I think I talked a lot and destroy the beauty of the poem above, sorry.

Jasmine

[Jasmine Al-Qahtani]

When I was browsing the net, I found this

Enjoy it



I still Ask


i still ask he is there for me when no one else will listen

he is there for me when no one else will care

and with his love my inner self can glisten and lose its darkned troubles and despair

i know that i can never ever pay You for all the debts You lent me in my days

yet humbly for more i still must ask You and praise You though You do not need my praise

my worldly wants do not mean a thing to You for Your eternal giving knows no pair

and when i'm needing i turn only to You for You are kind, and just, and Ever-Fair.


Ahmad Boukhater

Jasmine

[شذى الوادي]

المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة Jasmine Al-Qahtani When I was browsing the net, I found this Enjoy it I still Ask i still ask he is there for me when no one else will listen he is there for me when no one else will care and with his love my inner self can glisten and lose its darkned troubles and despair i know that i can never ever pay You for all the debts You lent me in my days yet humbly for more i still must ask You and praise You though You do not need my praise my worldly wants do not mean a thing to You for Your eternal giving knows no pair and when i'm needing i turn only to You for You are kind, and just, and Ever-Fair. Ahmad Boukhater Jasmine

u see , it's amazing

[Grotesque]

Greetings Shatha, indeed the poem is amazing thanx again

Why Stressed Women Talk

Under stress or pressure, a man’s brain functions of spatial ability and logic are activated. A woman’s speech function is activated and she starts talking, often non-stop. If she is stressed, she talks, talks and talks to anyone who will listen. She can talk about her problems to her friends for hours, giving a thorough report of details and then they all give the problem another post-mortem. She talks about present problems, past problems, possible problems and problems that have no solution. When she talks, no solutions are sought as she receives comfort and relief from process of talking. Her talk is unstructured and several subjects can be discussed at any one time with no conclusions being reached

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For a man, listening to her talk about problems is hard work because he feels he is expected to solve each problem she brings up as she talks aloud. He doesn’t just want to talk about it, he wants to do something about it! He likely to interrupt with, “what’s the point here?” The point is that there doesn’t need to be a point. The most valuable lesson a man can learn is to listen using listening sounds and gestures, and not to offer solutions. To a man, however, this is an alien concept because he only talks when he has a solution to offer

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When a woman refuses to accept his solution, his next strategy is to try to minimize the problems be telling her, “It doesn’t really matter” or “You’re overreacting” or “It’s not a big deal” This infuriates a woman who begins to feel he doesn’t care about her because he won’t listen
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(For a woman, sharing problems with her friends is a sign of trust and friendship)a

(When you’re dealing with an upset woman, don’t offer solutions or
invalidate her feelings, just show her you’re listening)a

Why Stressed Men Won’t Talk

A woman talks outside her head, that is, you hear her, whereas a man talks inside his head. He doesn’t have strong brain areas for speech to this suits his mindset. When he has a problem he talks to himself while she talks to other people. This is why, when under the pressure of problems or stress, a man will calm up and stop talking. He uses his right brain to try to solve his problems or find solutions and he stops using his left brain to listen or speak. His brain can only do one thing at a time. He can’t solve problems and listen or talk simultaneously. This silence is often distressing and frightening for a woman. A woman says to her husband, son and brother “Come on you have to talk about it! You will feel better!” She says this because this is what works for her. But he just wants to be left alone to firegaze until he comes up with some solutions and answers. He doesn’t want to talk to anyone about it, specially therapist, because he sees that as a major sign of weakness

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The famous Rodin sculpture “The Thinker” symbolizes a man thinking about his problems. He wants to sit on his rock and think about solutions and needs to be a lone to do it. They key word here is “alone” no one is allowed to go up on the rock with him, not even his best friends. In fact, his male friends would not even contemplate going up there. A women feels the urge to climb up there with him to give him comfort and she gets a rude shock when he pushes her off!! I Rodin created a sculpture to personify a woman, it would probably be called “The Talker”. Women need to understand that when a man is on his rock they need to leave him there and let him think. Many women feel that his silence means he doesn’t lover her or that he is angry with her. This is because if a woman wasn’t talking, she would be angry or upset. But if she leaves him on his rock with a cup of tea or coffee and doesn’t press him to talk, he will come down off his rock and feel happy and begin to talk again.

[شذى الوادي]

Hello Grotesque definitely , because woman is sentimentalist and sensitive , she can't repress her feelings and think about solution for her problems alone , she always loves to share them with her friends in order to gets an extra experience form those who know how to deal with such problems ,man often feels that he is strong and he can depend on himself ,so that's why you can see that his reaction towards problems is via being alone ,this is my point of view , and I like to hear from others

,it's nice topic and I feel that my language will be better soon (god willing )by virtue of Allah and then your topics ,also the comments will help me more to increase my vocabulary and to memorize words spelling so thanks for your humble effort and for your participating in this subject

[شذى الوادي]

i like this poem very much , so i love to share it with you guys


There is no God but you
That can take my soul.

(My God)

If I wrote such a poem
Just to say great you are
If I 'm:" holy you".
Would you forgive me like regular?

(My God)

I know that you can hear me
Every time I come to cry
Would you please forgive me?
Forgive me every time I why

(My God)

With every sunrise I thank you
But my thanks are not enough
Because you gave me so much
My soul, my life and all other stuff

(My God)

I always say your name (Allah)
With every step, I am going to move
My heart sank when hearing it
Hear my heart beats as a prove

(My God)

I do not just believe in you
Also the messenger you sent
To bring people from darkness
To straight path, that's what I meant

(My God)

Mohammad, mercy to all mankind
The best man whom ever known
You gave him miracles from your majesty
One of them is the split of the moon

(My God)

It is written for people to die
No one can escape this right
This life will end not so far
Don't hang in it so tight

Prepare your self for that day
When all the deaths will rise
That's when you judge people
To the red hall or to the green paradise

(My God)

This life is not more than a tree
Under its shadow we rest
My God we are under your mercy
I've done well and for you the rest

(My God) (My God) (My God) (My God)

My poem ends here
I hope it achieves its goal

[شذى الوادي]

how are you everybody i bring you a story ,I read this story in some forum while many Muslims are trying to prove that god is existed


there you go

A man went to a barber shop to have his hair and his beard cut as always

He began to have a good conversation with the barber who attended him.
They talked about so many things and various subjects.
Suddenly, they touched on the subject of God.
The barber said:
"Look man, I don't believe that God exists."
"Why do you say that?" asked the customer.
Well, it's so easy,you just have to go out in the street to
realize that God does not exist.
Oh, tell me, if God exists,would there be so many sick people?
Would there be abandoned
children?
If God exists,there would be no suffering nor pain.
I can't think of loving a God who permits all of these things."
The customer thought for a moment,but he didn't respond because he
did
not want to start an argument.
The barber finished his job and the customer left the shop.
Just after he left the barber shop,he saw a man in the street with
long
hair and a beard.
It was very long,and a long time since he had his hair cut.
He looked dirty and unkempt.
The customer entered the barber shop again and he said to the
barber:
"You know what? Barbers do not exist."
"How can you say they don't exist?" asked the surprised barber.

" I am here and I am a barber. Why I just worked on you!"
"No!" the customer exclaimed. "Barbers don't exist,because if they
did there would be no people with long hair and beard like that man
who
is outside."
"Ah, barbers do exist, what happens is that people do not come to
me."
"Exactly!"- affirmed the customer.
"That's the point! God does exist.
What happens if people don't go to Him and do not look for Him.
That's why there's so much pain and suffering in the world."

[Grotesque]

Thanx for ur participations shtha

[Jasmine Al-Qahtani]

Quotes about Words



"Good words anoint a man, ill words kill a man"

"Good words are worth much and cost little"

"Better one living word than a hundred dead"

"A word to the wise is sufficient"

"A fool and his words are soon parted"

"By words the mind is excited and the spirit elated"

"With words we govern men"

"Clearness is the most important matter in the use of words"

"Sharp words make more wound than surgeons can heal"

"Speak clearly, if you speak at all; Carve every word before you let it fall"



my father advised me when I was child to count to 10 before I speak
but
sometimes I found myself wanting to count to 100 because of the difficulty of some situations :(

Jasmine